I am from the Netherlands and in our culture it is so not done to love more than more people (at the same time!). Its called ‘legitimate cheating’ and I felt so alien before. The podcast actually helps me and my husband opening up, plus my (potential)lovers to understand, the dynamics. And.. I feel less alien now. Although I would love to hear more about how to stay togheter whilst opening up, as I get the idea that none of the speakers are still in their first (the one that made this way of life possible) relationship. I miss that, because we really really want to make this work whilst staying in our stable and loving soulful marriage. So yes: primary. But our other partners are def not secondary in our hearts... I would love to hear more examples how to achieve this ethically.

This show is fantastic, especially if you're interested in improving your relationship. Not only did it give me a ton of useful information on things like healthy communication, honesty, and consent, but I also had a great time listening, because the hosts discuss every topic with integrity as well as a good dose of humor. You can really tell how much they enjoy creating their show together and how much they love each other!

This show manages to stay relevant and interesting, while still focussing on relationships. I have learned so much from these three great personalities. I started listening this on my way to work 2 months ago or so, and it has been a great source of help and understanding for me and my girlfriend on our perilous quest for the ultimate relationships. Please keep up the good work!